This guide was made by kirbywiggin and she deserves all the credit for it. happy

grin ~*~*~ Ultimate Guide to Happiness ~*~*~ grin

Instead of bitching about being unhappy, do something about it! I hope that these suggestions will help you or others you know have a more enjoyable life. <(^_^)>



happy Exercise
Exercising will increase the serotonin (a mood-lifting chemical) in your brain. Aerobic, nonaerobic, and strength training have all been shown to significantly reduce depressive symptoms. In one study (Blumenthal et al. 1999), those who did aerobic exercise (using a treadmill or stationary bicycle for 30 minutes, 3 times a week) had similar benefits to those who used Zoloft alone or Zoloft and exercise combined. Not only that, but the exercise group had significantly lower relapse rates than the other two groups. Another plus is that you'll probably feel better about yourself if you have a fit and healthy body.


happy Sleep
Lack of sufficient sleep will result in mood deterioration, fatigue, gloominess, and diminished alertness. Make sure you don't oversleep, either. Check out my Ultimate Guide to Sleeping for more.


happy Keep Busy
Don't sit around and dwell in your misery. Keep your body and mind activated. Find challenges for yourself. Get a job. Pick up a hobby. Not only will all this be rewarding, it will also keep you from moping.


happy Smile
It may sound kind of silly, but it actually works. Smiling sends messages to your brain telling it that you're happy. You can also frown to make yourself unhappy or furrow your eyebrows to make yourself angry... but hey, SMILE. We're working on happiness here!


happy Avoid Smoking or Drinking
Both smoking and drinking have been known to increase depression and anxiety. Alcohol is a depressant, but for those who feel they must drink, you should limit yourselves to one drink a day (1 ounce of hard liquor, 4 ounces of wine, or 12 ounces of beer). Smoking can also increase the risk for the onset of panic attacks. And for those who get addicted, the lack of self control in your life will wear you down. It will also take a toll on our physical health which affects your mental health.


happy Avoid Drugs
Drugs can aggravate or trigger depression, especially for those already susceptible to it. Unfortunately, many depressed people turn to drugs to hide from their problems, but really, they are often making it worse in the long run. Marijuana in particular is not a good choice of drugs if you're already depressed or have depression running in your family. Mushrooms, cocaine, heroin, and many others can cause or worsen depression.

But don't think that I'm just talking about street drugs. Many prescription drugs can also trigger or aggravate depression. Ask your doctor about depression as a side effect before starting any medications, even anti-depressants. And in general, try to avoid taking prescription drugs unless absolutely necessary - most merely mask symptoms rather than fixing the problem and can also cause additional health problems which, again, affects your mental health.


happy Avoid Sugar
Sugar can give you a burst of energy at first, but afterwards, it can leave you tired and depressed. It can also make you moody. So it's best to avoid such things as candy, soda, and refined and processed foods.


happy Be Optimistic
Don't dwell on the negative things in life. Remember the good things that happen. Look at the positive side of everything. Instead of worrying about your love life or weight, think about how the things you so often take for granted. And more than that, work to change those things in your life that make you unhappy. Especially for those in America, you don't even realize what you've got. And remember, happiness is a choice you make.


happy Build Strong Relationships
It's good to have one to several good relationships. Whether it's a best friend, relative, spouse, or significant other, take time to work on the relationship. When they need your support, you'll feel needed and wanted. When you need their support, they'll be there for you. Getting the love and attention of the important people in your life will give you stability and support.


happy Marry Well
Who you marry will most likely be the biggest external influence on your happiness. People (particularly men) who marry report a higher level of happiness than those who don't. However, make sure you marry the right person. The person you marry is the one with whom you'll share your life, home, bed, kids, money, etc. Children of divorced parents are more likely to develop depression, so it's also important that you marry well for their sake.


happy Manage Your Time
By managing your time, you'll feel more in control of your life. You'll realize how much you can accomplish and will also be able to make sure that you take time out for yourself.


happy Help Others
This has so many benefits. First, it'll give you something to do and keep you busy. Second, by focusing on others, it keeps you from wallowing in your self-pity. Third, you get a great deal of satisfaction from helping others. And last, people will like you better. This will not only make you more popular, but people will be more willing to help you out as well.


happy Have a Meaningful Religion
Key word here: Meaningful

Don't just join a religion that you don't support or believe in. That's probably not going to help. But there are so many religions (both theistic and not) out there that, chances are, you'll find one that suits you.

People who have a meaningful religion generally live longer, happier lives and recover from injury and illness faster. Faith provides hope, a reason to help others, a sense of purpose, and a supportive community.


happy Meditate
Meditation increases self-confidence and feelings of connection to others. Many studies have shown that depressed people feel much better after eliciting the relaxation response. It can also prevent recurring depression.

However, for some severely depressed individuals, the act of focusing inward can actually heighten negative feelings. If this is the case, then stop the practice until the depression is less severe or until you find an experienced teacher who can guide you and make sure you're using the meditative techniques in a beneficial way. (Ultimate Guide to Meditation in progress!)

Yoga and prayer are also forms of meditation.


happy Reduce Stress
There are many different ways of reducing stress. Meditation, exercise, time management, and a few other things mentioned in this guide can help, but you should also find your own ways of relieving stress. Music, warm baths, sports, video games, and writing are just a few things that you might find relaxing.


happy Consider Therapy
Therapy is not just for crazy people! Pretty much anyone can benefit from therapy, and most people find it more helpful than medications. Cognitive-behavioral therapy, in particular, is helpful for those who can't seem to overcome their feelings of pessimism, hopelessness, lack of confidence, etc. Most depression is caused, or at least aggravated, by negative thinking.

Therapists can also help you to pinpoint and then solve problems, set and achieve realistic goals, and manage and prevent episodes of depression.


happy Get Some Sunlight
Sunlight affects the levels of serotonin in your brain. Exposing yourself to sunlight daily can help alleviate depression, especially if you are prone to Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD).


happy Get Proper Nutrition and Vitamins
Many vitamins and nutrients are needed for the body to operate properly, and some people find that their depression disappears once they start eating properly or taking nutritional supplements.



And remember, just act happy. Your body will respond to it, and you'll actually become happier. Not only that, but part of who you are is how people respond to you. If you act happy, people will treat you more positively and smile more around you. And moods are contagious. People will like you better and want to be around you more. Misery may love company, but company does not like misery.

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